Sunday, 22 December 2013

Value Your Choice...

If a drop of water falls in lake, there's no identity.

But if it falls on a leaf of lotus, it shines sort of a pearl.
So select the simplest place wherever one would shine.
Do not simply keep slogging; understand wherever to figure onerous, how to,
which domain, when, what system or project.
Place means that a company, city, country, field, team, technology.
Do what suits you, from on overall perspective, when hearing to everybody.
Success isn't enthusiastic about that call .
Once the choice is formed, Success is said to the proper effort
robust determination at the side of Associate in Nursing unwavering commitment...

Tuesday, 10 December 2013

Two Types Of People...

In my point of view there are two types of people in the world. The one, who believe in telling others, and the other one who believe in doing, rather than blaming to others.
Today I will give an example which I have studied when I was a school kid. The story goes like this. One day a farmer, walking down the street in a small town came across a large stone in the middle of his path.
The farmer complained: "Who could be so careless as to leave such a big stone on the road? Why does someone not remove it?" He went away complaining.

The next day, the same thing happened with a milkman. He too went away grumbling but left the stone as it was.

Then one day, a student came across the stone. Worried that someone may fall over it and hurt himself, he decided to push it aside.
He pushed long and hard all by himself and eventually managed to remove the stone from the path.
He came back and noticed a piece of paper where the stone was kept.
He picked the paper and opened it. Inside was written, "You are the true wealth of this nation."
There are two kinds of people - talkers and doers.
Talkers merely talk, while doers do.
The moral of this story is that if you don't want to get involved you have no right to criticize. Become the change you wish to see in this world then only you will change the world…

Saturday, 30 November 2013

Change Your Thinking...

Today I have one old story to tell you. Maybe most of you already know it, but just read it and think once again with my prospective.
Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. 
One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. 
His bed was next to the room's only window.The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. 
They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation... 
Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. 
The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and colour of the world outside.
The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake, ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every colour and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.. 
As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene. 
One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days, weeks and months passed...
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. 
She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. 
Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed. It faced a blank wall.. 
The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.
The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. 
She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.' 
The moral of the story which I feel in my heart is- 
There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations. 
Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled. 
If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy...

Monday, 18 November 2013

Dear Mother...

Dear Mother,
You don't have to fix my situation
or change the people around me,
But please change me according to the situation.
Instead of giving me what I want,
Give me what you feel is best for me.
There is no need to fix my all problems,
because when I am surrounded by them,
Than only I will realize my need for You.
When the pain inside is almost too much,
for me to have, don't take all the pain away
but comfort me in your arms and remind me,
how much you love me.
When people disappoint me, than remind me,
that it's only you that I can truly depend.
When my situation looks dark's 
& seems like no way to out,
help me to focus on the work
 that's taking place inside of me
instead of the reality of my surroundings.
Don't change my situation every time I call,
but use my situation as a tool
 to change the inside of me...

Saturday, 2 November 2013

Get On With Life…

Some people are not going to like you no matter what you do or what you say. Get over it and get on with life. Some your efforts are not going to bring the result you were after. Accept it and find another approach because every day is a new beginning.
Occasionally you will be distracted and knocked off course for a while. On a regular basis, life will have its disappointments. Those disappointment and destruction do not have to stop you. In fact you can choose to let them inspire you and to push you forward. No matter what had just happened, you are free in this movement to act with positive purpose. Whatever the past has worked in your favor or not, the future is you’re to create as you wish. Life is too important to waste it feeling sorry for yourself or beating yourself up. Get up and get on with life, and make it match your expectation…

Wednesday, 9 October 2013

Do Not Believe…

Simply because you have heard it.
Do not believe in anything
Simply because it is spoken,
And rumored by many.
Do not believe in anything
Simply because it is found
Written in your religious book.
Do not believe in anything
Merely on the authority of your
Teachers and elders.
Do not believe in false traditions
Because they have been handed
Down for many generations.
But after observation and analysis.
When you find that anything agrees
With the reason and its conducive
To the good and benefits of one and all,
Than accept it and live up to it… 

Monday, 30 September 2013

Restarts of life...

In my old post I asked to you all that “What will you do” if you face that situation. I got so many replies saying that it will surely happen once in all the humans’ life. We must have to give our 100% in relationship than only it will be a pure love relation I am purely agreed with all of you. Our life is like this only. We always have two sides. One side always has joy, laughter, happiness, Success, fun and other side tears, sadness and hurt. The thing about our life I feel that you always going to hurt. You are going to have emotional nights and cry yourself to sleep for hours. You will always suffer some kind of loss. But you will also have those moments where you heal. Those moments are the best. You feel like you smile for the first time again. You feel like you are alive again. And your life is just kind of restarts and its the truth of our life . So don’t be always negative, a bright side is also waiting for you, to show you the happiness and love..

Tuesday, 17 September 2013

The Law Of Mirrors...

I have so many friends who always say that he is like this or she is like this. But If I will show you exactly the maximum quality is same in him or her. Whatever we think about any other person we think according to our personalityand perception. We see only those things which we know well or in other word which are near to us. When people insult you, don’t take offense, don’t take it personally, but do listen their words. 
They are telling you how they see the world, and they are telling you the exact negative qualities that they possess. The law of mirrors says that, one can only see what is in them, regardless if it is what is actually present in reality or not.  Release the need to defend or try to explain to them that you are not being whatever insult they have thrown at you, but evaluate instead all of these insult, and realize that this is who they are. Then decide if a person with those qualities is one who you would like in your life or not…

Saturday, 7 September 2013

If One Day..

If one day you feel like crying, Call me,
I don’t promise you that
I will make you laugh
But I can cry with you.
If one day you want to run away
Don’t be afraid to call me.
I don’t promise to ask you to stop,
But I can run with you..
 If one day you don’t want to
Listen anybody, Call me..
I promise to be very quiet..
If one day you call
And there is no answer,
Then come fast to me,
Perhaps I need you…

Friday, 23 August 2013

Age and maturity...

In every human life there is a cycle of the age, if you see the Indian Purana’s than you can understand easily that all the species in the earth always have a cycle for our life. According to our Purana’s first is childhood in which all says that we are immature, second is adult in which all are called grown, and the third is old age in which we are fully experienced and matured. I can understand you are thinking that what I am talking about, so I will not keep you more in suspense.  
We always heard from every 2nd and third person's mouth that you are no more child so behave like a matured person. The point is who is matured??? Is an adult person or old?? In my point of view I can say that nobody is matured if people compare maturity with age. The reason behind this I feel is, most of the people say when we are child we are immature, but what about those old people who behave same like a child?? If we say that they are immature than it’s totally wrong because they are older than us and having more experience than us.  So can we say them immature?

            If somebody ask to me that who is mature person, than I will always say that nobody is mature. Because in my point of view nobody is mature.  People only learn to act like a mature person in front of other people.  We really never grow up, we only learn how to act in public. This is the truths of our life...

Saturday, 3 August 2013

Perfect Vs Best!!!

If I will ask you a question to explain the difference between perfect and best, or to choose which is more attractive than I am sure you will choose the perfect.  The image of this word “perfect” is very deeply involved in our mind. But according to me “Best” is more important and more attractive, because in that we can give our 100%. If we take an example of India “Shastra” than we can find that so many people want to be a perfect king or person, but they are not able to sustain. We can take a great example of “Ravana” he is extremely intelligent and one of the best “Pandit” but because of his aim to be perfect he done all distorted things. I am not telling to be a perfect person is bad, or whoever wants to be a perfect person is not good. But I simply want to say that if you always want to be perfect than you are never being a perfect person, this is the truth of our life. Life always makes changes and because of all those changes you can’t be a perfect person ever. In so many Indian “Vedas” you can find that “Don’t waste your life aiming to be perfect, when you can aim to be the best person you can be as yourself. When we aim for perfectionism, we aim for a distorted view of life, that we will probably obtain physically, but not spiritually or inside of our self. So don’t aim to be a perfect person. If you are perfect than it’s good but if not than try to be the best among all and also within yourself...

Sunday, 21 July 2013

Give Your Hundred Percent..

Today I have a small story for you all. Its most of applicable to all of us in our daily life. But if we think by our heart, than it has a great moral. The story goes like this. A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had some sweets with him, and the girl had some collection of marbles with her. Both are enjoying and playing with each other. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his sweets in exchange for her marbles. The girl told ok I am agreed. The girl kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the boy. The boy gave her all his sweets as he promised. That night, the boy slept peacefully. But the girl couldn't sleep as she kept wondering if the boy had hidden some sweets from her the way she had hidden her best marble. I know many of us are already heard the story, but for the moral of the story which I feel that everybody has a different opinion. What I feel regarding this story is if we don't give our hundred percent in a relationship, we will always keep doubting that wether the other person has given his/her hundred percent or not. This is applicable for all the relationship from birth to the end of the life. So if you want a good relationship with anyone than give your hundred percent to them and enjoy the peace...

Friday, 5 July 2013

Who You are.???

There are some moments in your life that’s makes you, and sets the series of events of who you are going to be. They are the moments when you can’t understand what is happening to you. Why you are changing day by day. What happen to your favorite game, songs, food, which is getting tasteless day by day? Suddenly you feel that you are getting old, or suddenly you feel that you are changed so much. It happens with all of us. Sometimes they are little, unusual moments. Sometimes they are really good and big moments you never saw coming. People change because of the nature of the people. Sometimes we ourselves don’t know that we are changing.  No one asks for their life to change, but it does. It’s what you do afterwards that counts, it may be good or bad.  That’s when you find out who really are you..

Saturday, 29 June 2013

Thanks To All...

Thanks to those who hated me,
You made me stronger.
Thanks to those who loved me,
You made my heart go fonder.
Thanks to those who cared,
You made me feel important.
Thanks to those who entered in my life,
You made who I am today.
Special thanks to those who left me,
You showed me that nothing last forever.
Thanks to those who stayed with me,
You showed me true friendship.
And finally thanks to those who listened me,
You made me like I was worth it...

Monday, 24 June 2013

Truths Of Life..

For writing my post sometimes I use some real life incidents which is close to my heart and sometimes I use others suggestions or reading from books. Yesterday I experienced something personally. If we just look at them and feel them from the heart, then we realise that they are very common in life. But if we really think than we can feel that they are very true in nature. Sometimes when we are sad then we always think that our life is not good and if we take just opposite situation than we feel that our life is so good. If we think correctly than we can say that life is not just a situation, but the life is a mixture of our nature, Life is an art, friends, surrounding and many more things which are involved very deeply in our heart. If our situations, friends and all those things which are effecting us are in favour, than our life is so good but if not then its not supporting. We always want a good life, and always pray to get a peaceful life. Some get according to their wish but some not. If you are getting according to your wish than its very good, but if not then do not blame on others. Life doesn't give you the people you want, but it gives you the people you need. To help you, to support you, to Love you, to leave you to become the person you know you can be. This is the truth of our life...

Saturday, 15 June 2013

Decision & Coin...

Some days back I decided to start another blog. It's very good feeling to me that I will manage and share another blog. But I was not able to decide in which topic I will start my blog. I had a confusion between tow topics, the first was "Social Media Marketing" and another was "Indian Art". I hope so many people faced a situation like this when they have more than two choice and they have to select only one. I love the Indian Art, Paintings, but I also love Social Media Marketing. I have to choose only one because if I will select both than I can't concentrate on all the topics, that's why I decided to manage only two blogs, but the problem is which one.?? Than I did a simple thing, taken a coin, if "Head" than Social Media Marketing and if, "tell" than Indian Art. I can understand what you are thinking but its the best way which I can think. The reason is not because its easy to toss a coin and get any one side, but the reason is when the coin is in the air you got to know what you really want, because your heart is hoping for that. So same thing I done and now I have another blog "Market-You".. See it and give your suggestions. It's the right thing what I had done or wrong.???  

Tuesday, 4 June 2013

What will you do.??

For a while think that somebody love you so much. His/her love is not physically or mentally but it’s a spiritual love. She/he can do anything to get you. He/she always thinks only about you. And in the other side you don’t know about this. You think like she/he is a good friend who shares everything with you.  One day she/he proposes you. But the bad luck of that human is you refused to love her/him. Then also he/she loves you so much that, when your current lover left you, she/he always cares about you. She/he always with you and always try to make you happy. And one day you realize that she/he is doing everything to make me happy and I am sad because one person left Me.??? I love a lot that person, but she/he left Me.? You know that the other one loves you so much, but then also you are not able to decide what to do. Somewhere I read that “In life, don’t be confused or sad when something good or beautiful leaves you. Just like in the sea, another beautiful wave will always come; you just have to be ready to see it”. But I am not agreeing with this, because I also read that “true love happen only one time”. If this is the case than what is your opinion about this.?? What do you think that you will do, if it happens with you?