Showing posts with label Self Improvement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self Improvement. Show all posts

Monday, 24 February 2014

9 Steps for Self Improvement...

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1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it-
If you want to do some work and your heart says or indicate that its wrong, or you feel that it’s wrong than don’t do that work.

2. Say exactly what you mean-
Some people are not very clear with their thoughts and what they are saying. So you must take care or your words that what you want to convey to the other person.

3. Don’t be a people pleaser-
I personally know some people who always please their boss or power person to get close relation with them. It’s not bad to have pleasing personality, but it should be according to correct time and situation not always.

4. Trust your instincts-
If you want to do something and your instincts say that you can do it than go ahead and do it.

5. Never speak badly about yourself-
This is the most common habit of almost all the people, sometimes even I speak badly about myself, but the truth is we don’t have to speak bad about our self, it will create an unconscious in our mind and we will do what we are thinking about our self.

6. Never give up on your dreams-
I was a poor student in my schooling, and I always want to be at least an average, if not good a student. I tried hard, and now I can say that I have a good understanding about myself which shows that we can improve our self if we have trust in our dreams.

7. Don’t be afraid to say no-
According to me this is the point which is useful in every field or our life, from personal to professional work. If you learn to say no in some situation, than it’s good for you. Suppose you have to submit your monthly report to your manager and if your team leader says that please help me or do my work also, than in this condition you must say no if you don’t have time.

8. Be kind to yourself-
Always try to be kind for yourself. It’s only you who knows that what you are doing and how you are doing. So be positive and polite with yourself and you will see that your productivity is increasing day by day.

9. Let go of what you can’t control-
Sometimes what happen, we know that because of “me” we have lost something or we have lost something, but the real situation was in not your control. So in that condition don’t think much about that and don’t bring negativity in your mind. Forget whatever happens because there are some things which are not in our control.

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Monday, 18 November 2013

Dear Mother...

Dear Mother,
You don't have to fix my situation
or change the people around me,
But please change me according to the situation.
Instead of giving me what I want,
Give me what you feel is best for me.
There is no need to fix my all problems,
because when I am surrounded by them,
Than only I will realize my need for You.
When the pain inside is almost too much,
for me to have, don't take all the pain away
but comfort me in your arms and remind me,
how much you love me.
When people disappoint me, than remind me,
that it's only you that I can truly depend.
When my situation looks dark's 
& seems like no way to out,
help me to focus on the work
 that's taking place inside of me
instead of the reality of my surroundings.
Don't change my situation every time I call,
but use my situation as a tool
 to change the inside of me...

Wednesday, 9 October 2013

Do Not Believe…

Simply because you have heard it.
Do not believe in anything
Simply because it is spoken,
And rumored by many.
Do not believe in anything
Simply because it is found
Written in your religious book.
Do not believe in anything
Merely on the authority of your
Teachers and elders.
Do not believe in false traditions
Because they have been handed
Down for many generations.
But after observation and analysis.
When you find that anything agrees
With the reason and its conducive
To the good and benefits of one and all,
Than accept it and live up to it…