Friday 23 August 2013

Age and maturity...

In every human life there is a cycle of the age, if you see the Indian Purana’s than you can understand easily that all the species in the earth always have a cycle for our life. According to our Purana’s first is childhood in which all says that we are immature, second is adult in which all are called grown, and the third is old age in which we are fully experienced and matured. I can understand you are thinking that what I am talking about, so I will not keep you more in suspense.  
We always heard from every 2nd and third person's mouth that you are no more child so behave like a matured person. The point is who is matured??? Is an adult person or old?? In my point of view I can say that nobody is matured if people compare maturity with age. The reason behind this I feel is, most of the people say when we are child we are immature, but what about those old people who behave same like a child?? If we say that they are immature than it’s totally wrong because they are older than us and having more experience than us.  So can we say them immature?

            If somebody ask to me that who is mature person, than I will always say that nobody is mature. Because in my point of view nobody is mature.  People only learn to act like a mature person in front of other people.  We really never grow up, we only learn how to act in public. This is the truths of our life...

Saturday 3 August 2013

Perfect Vs Best!!!


If I will ask you a question to explain the difference between perfect and best, or to choose which is more attractive than I am sure you will choose the perfect.  The image of this word “perfect” is very deeply involved in our mind. But according to me “Best” is more important and more attractive, because in that we can give our 100%. If we take an example of India “Shastra” than we can find that so many people want to be a perfect king or person, but they are not able to sustain. We can take a great example of “Ravana” he is extremely intelligent and one of the best “Pandit” but because of his aim to be perfect he done all distorted things. I am not telling to be a perfect person is bad, or whoever wants to be a perfect person is not good. But I simply want to say that if you always want to be perfect than you are never being a perfect person, this is the truth of our life. Life always makes changes and because of all those changes you can’t be a perfect person ever. In so many Indian “Vedas” you can find that “Don’t waste your life aiming to be perfect, when you can aim to be the best person you can be as yourself. When we aim for perfectionism, we aim for a distorted view of life, that we will probably obtain physically, but not spiritually or inside of our self. So don’t aim to be a perfect person. If you are perfect than it’s good but if not than try to be the best among all and also within yourself...