Children are more intelligent...

In India people says that, children are a part of God. Well I am not going to discuss about the God, but I just want to say that, they are not less than God. They are the only one, who is pure by heart and mind. They don't know what is good and bad things about the world.

Well I think we are going in some different directions, so let's comeback to our real talk. Recently, I came across a situation where a father was doing his office work, and he was very busy with that work. Near to him, his 6-7 year child was playing, and asking his father to play with him.

Father was thinking that how can I make him to do some other work, so that I can do my work properly. He lifted a map, and made 3-4 small peaces of that map. After that he asked to his son that, if he will make the map correctly, than he will take his son, wherever he want.

Son was very excited and said, ok father. After some 3-4 minute later, the son came and said to his father. "Father, I have completed the map, now come with me, we will go to the park". Father thought, probably he has made the wrong correction, so he asked to his son that try once again. But the child showed him that map, and the map was correct. The father was shocked, because he didn't aspect his son will make the correct map. He asked to his son that, how he made that map in very less time. His child answered peacefully that, in the backside of that map, there was a face, so I just arranged the face, and the map is ready.

So the moral of the story is, there are lots of way to solve any problem. The thing is how we want to solve it.

20 Tips for a Healthy Life...

I am not a physician or somebody who knows about the health. But today I will share some healthy  tips, which will change your life. These tips are simple and easy, and once you start to implement in your life, you will find an appropriate improvement.

1. Take a 10-30 moment walk consistently & while you walk, SMILE. It is a definitive energizer.  
2. When you get up in the morning, pray to approach God's direction for your motivation. 
3. Attempt to make no less than three individuals grin every day. 
4. Don't think about negative considerations or things, which you can't control. Rather put your vitality in the positive present minute. 
5. Consume breakfast like a lord, lunch like a ruler and supper like a school kid with a maxed out charge card. 
6. Life isn't reasonable, yet its still great. 
7. Life is so short it would be impossible waste time despising anybody. Excuse them for everything ! 
8. Don't consider yourself so important. Nobody else does. 
9. You don't need to win each contention. Consent to oppose this idea. 
10. Make peace with your past so it won't ruin the present. 
11. Don't contrast your existence with others. You have no clue what their trip is about. 
12. Nobody is accountable for your joy aside from you. 
13. Help the needy,be liberal ! Be a "Provider" not a "Taker" 
14. What other individuals consider you is not your issue to worry about. 
15. However great or awful a circumstance is, it will change. 
16. Your occupation won't deal with you when you are diseased. Your companions will. Stay in touch. 
17. Jealousy is an exercise in futility. You as of recently have all you require. 
18. Every prior night you go to cot ,Pray to God and Be appreciative for what you'll achieve, today ! 
19. Keep in mind that you are so honored it is not possible be focused.
20. Share this to everybody on your schedule to help them lead a more satisfied life… !!

Attitudes for Life...

Once I have read somewhere that "Our attitude shows that where we are now in the height of success, and where we will go". Everybody has their own point of view towards attitude. Here we have 3 types of attitude for life.

• “Maintain an attitude of anticipating success!”- Some people with a negative mindset have become masters of anticipating failure. Change the mindset to positive. As most of the time we think that, it is not going to happen, and we anticipate failure of our all hard work. But we must have to think positively.
• "Maintain a forgiving attitude”. I feel that, I am very lucky who got so many friends who are good as a family. From whom I can learn so many things and will learn so many things. I remember one of my friend who is very very simple, forgiving nature, and I always admire the clam attitude same like my friend. I can say that he was one of my "Guru" who thought me, how to control our self and forgive others. Now he is in very good position and getting success in every steps. That's an live example of a forgiving attitude which I feel that everybody should have.
• “Maintain a receptive attitude”. Be open to others ideas, opinions, suggestions; do not have mental blockade. Listen first and listen to everyone. Spread love, think twice then make any decision.

It is clear now that a Positive Attitude towards our - job, spouse, friends, colleagues, family members, business, siblings, boss, partner, client, associate, passion, interests, hobbies are needed.
One will hit the peak & reach the top of his personal life & career if he creates a Positive Attitude in all the above. Let us keep working in that direction so that we can improve our self and our Inner Power...

Change Your Thinking...

Today I have one old story to tell you. Maybe most of you already know it, but just read it and think once again with my prospective.

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. 

One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. 

His bed was next to the room's only window.The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. 

They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation... 

Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. 

The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and colour of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake, ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every colour and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.. 

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene. 

One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days, weeks and months passed...

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. 

She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. 

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed. It faced a blank wall.. 

The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.

The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. 

She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.' 

The moral of the story which I feel in my heart is- 

There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations. 

Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled. 

If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy...

The Law Of Mirrors...

I have so many friends who always say that he is like this or she is like this. But If I will show you exactly the maximum quality is same in him or her. Whatever we think about any other person we think according to our personalityand perception. We see only those things which we know well or in other word which are near to us. When people insult you, don’t take offense, don’t take it personally, but do listen their words. 

They are telling you how they see the world, and they are telling you the exact negative qualities that they possess. The law of mirrors says that, one can only see what is in them, regardless if it is what is actually present in reality or not.  Release the need to defend or try to explain to them that you are not being whatever insult they have thrown at you, but evaluate instead all of these insult, and realize that this is who they are. Then decide if a person with those qualities is one who you would like in your life or not…

Give Your Hundred Percent..

Today I have a small story for you all. Its most of applicable to all of us in our daily life. But if we think by our heart, than it has a great moral. The story goes like this. A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had some sweets with him, and the girl had some collection of marbles with her. Both are enjoying and playing with each other. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his sweets in exchange for her marbles. The girl told ok I am agreed. The girl kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the boy. The boy gave her all his sweets as he promised. That night, the boy slept peacefully. But the girl couldn't sleep as she kept wondering if the boy had hidden some sweets from her the way she had hidden her best marble. I know many of us are already heard the story, but for the moral of the story which I feel that everybody has a different opinion. What I feel regarding this story is if we don't give our hundred percent in a relationship, we will always keep doubting that wether the other person has given his/her hundred percent or not. This is applicable for all the relationship from birth to the end of the life. So if you want a good relationship with anyone than give your hundred percent to them and enjoy the peace...