"I will not quite"

"I will not quite"- Be positive, and you can defeat anything !!

Succeed in believing that you will not fail.

Use diligent effort and determination to set your sail.

When the weather is stormy and the weather are rough,

In the moment of danger the strong get tough.

whenever life presses you, down a bit.

Stand up and shout , "I will not quite"

Work hard for your own future...

This time I have an interesting motivational story for you all, but before the story I want to tell you something. China is famous for the hard way of flourishing their child. Their moms are so called Tiger mom’s around the world. They use very hard ways to grow their child. If you want to know more about it, you can just search in Google and you will get all the information.

So coming back to our topic, in India also so many people feel that, if the child has seen a hard time or a hard way of life, then he became more successful with compare to other child who was grown in a very rich or we can say in a lovely way.

My parents had told me lots of stories of those children who are not rich and they don’t have good facilities, but then also they have succeeded in their life. You can read about so many people who have faced the bad time, and then only they got the success.
Based on this, I got an interesting and motivational story which will indicate the same thing. The story is something like this-

A father was working very hard in his form, and he was continuously telling his son to work hard. After watching this for quite a long time, his friend says, you have very good land, you are getting good return also, and then why are you forcing your son to work more hard? He is already working very hard!

Then the father replied, I am telling my son to work hard, not for the land or the return, but for the future of my son. If he learns to work hard, then always he will get a good return out of it.

So according to me the moral is, you have to work harder and harder to get a bright future.

20 Tips for a Healthy Life...

I am not a physician or somebody who knows about the health. But today I will share some healthy  tips, which will change your life. These tips are simple and easy, and once you start to implement in your life, you will find an appropriate improvement.

1. Take a 10-30 moment walk consistently & while you walk, SMILE. It is a definitive energizer.  
2. When you get up in the morning, pray to approach God's direction for your motivation. 
3. Attempt to make no less than three individuals grin every day. 
4. Don't think about negative considerations or things, which you can't control. Rather put your vitality in the positive present minute. 
5. Consume breakfast like a lord, lunch like a ruler and supper like a school kid with a maxed out charge card. 
6. Life isn't reasonable, yet its still great. 
7. Life is so short it would be impossible waste time despising anybody. Excuse them for everything ! 
8. Don't consider yourself so important. Nobody else does. 
9. You don't need to win each contention. Consent to oppose this idea. 
10. Make peace with your past so it won't ruin the present. 
11. Don't contrast your existence with others. You have no clue what their trip is about. 
12. Nobody is accountable for your joy aside from you. 
13. Help the needy,be liberal ! Be a "Provider" not a "Taker" 
14. What other individuals consider you is not your issue to worry about. 
15. However great or awful a circumstance is, it will change. 
16. Your occupation won't deal with you when you are diseased. Your companions will. Stay in touch. 
17. Jealousy is an exercise in futility. You as of recently have all you require. 
18. Every prior night you go to cot ,Pray to God and Be appreciative for what you'll achieve, today ! 
19. Keep in mind that you are so honored it is not possible be focused.
20. Share this to everybody on your schedule to help them lead a more satisfied life… !!

The Irony of Our Life is...

Sometime I always think about my past when I was a child, and we had only 15-20 friends who are very near to me. If we want to play a game or bunk the class, we always stay together even when we were getting punishment. Those are the days which force me now to connect with my friends once again with the help of current social media.
I am very much active in media, and I have so many friends who love me a lot. This time I have one post which is forwarded by one of my friend who believes that there is something different in life. He believes that what we really think is not the truth. I will not change his words and show you his though process towards the life.
According to him "The Irony of Our Life is….."
We always think that the wedding halls are those places where we can see more love, affection and kisses. But the reality is Airports have seen more Affectionate Kisses than Wedding Halls..
We always think that, our temples or any of our religious places have heard more sincere prayer than any other place. But unfortunately it’s wrong. The Walls of Hospitals have heard more Sincere Prayers
than the Walls of Temples, Masjid and churches..
Good Days or Bad Days Depend on your Thinking. What u Call “Suffocation” in Local Train Becomes an “Atmosphere” in Disco. Pizza….always confuses us, it comes in a square box. When you open it, it’s round. When you start eating it, it’s triangle!
Life & People are also like Pizza, look different.. Appear different & behave absolutely different. This is the only Irony of Our Life...

9 Steps for Self Improvement...

1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it-
If you want to do some work and your heart says or indicate that its wrong, or you feel that it’s wrong than don’t do that work.

2. Say exactly what you mean-
Some people are not very clear with their thoughts and what they are saying. So you must take care or your words that what you want to convey to the other person.

3. Don’t be a people pleaser-
I personally know some people who always please their boss or power person to get close relation with them. It’s not bad to have pleasing personality, but it should be according to correct time and situation not always.

4. Trust your instincts-
If you want to do something and your instincts say that you can do it than go ahead and do it.

5. Never speak badly about yourself-
This is the most common habit of almost all the people, sometimes even I speak badly about myself, but the truth is we don’t have to speak bad about our self, it will create an unconscious in our mind and we will do what we are thinking about our self.

6. Never give up on your dreams-
I was a poor student in my schooling, and I always want to be at least an average, if not good a student. I tried hard, and now I can say that I have a good understanding about myself which shows that we can improve our self if we have trust in our dreams.

7. Don’t be afraid to say no-
According to me this is the point which is useful in every field or our life, from personal to professional work. If you learn to say no in some situation, than it’s good for you. Suppose you have to submit your monthly report to your manager and if your team leader says that please help me or do my work also, than in this condition you must say no if you don’t have time.

8. Be kind to yourself-
Always try to be kind for yourself. It’s only you who knows that what you are doing and how you are doing. So be positive and polite with yourself and you will see that your productivity is increasing day by day.

9. Let go of what you can’t control-
Sometimes what happen, we know that because of “me” we have lost something or we have lost something, but the real situation was in not your control. So in that condition don’t think much about that and don’t bring negativity in your mind. Forget whatever happens because there are some things which are not in our control.

Attitudes for Life...

Once I have read somewhere that "Our attitude shows that where we are now in the height of success, and where we will go". Everybody has their own point of view towards attitude. Here we have 3 types of attitude for life.

• “Maintain an attitude of anticipating success!”- Some people with a negative mindset have become masters of anticipating failure. Change the mindset to positive. As most of the time we think that, it is not going to happen, and we anticipate failure of our all hard work. But we must have to think positively.
• "Maintain a forgiving attitude”. I feel that, I am very lucky who got so many friends who are good as a family. From whom I can learn so many things and will learn so many things. I remember one of my friend who is very very simple, forgiving nature, and I always admire the clam attitude same like my friend. I can say that he was one of my "Guru" who thought me, how to control our self and forgive others. Now he is in very good position and getting success in every steps. That's an live example of a forgiving attitude which I feel that everybody should have.
• “Maintain a receptive attitude”. Be open to others ideas, opinions, suggestions; do not have mental blockade. Listen first and listen to everyone. Spread love, think twice then make any decision.

It is clear now that a Positive Attitude towards our - job, spouse, friends, colleagues, family members, business, siblings, boss, partner, client, associate, passion, interests, hobbies are needed.
One will hit the peak & reach the top of his personal life & career if he creates a Positive Attitude in all the above. Let us keep working in that direction so that we can improve our self and our Inner Power...

Value Your Choice...

If a drop of water falls in lake, there's no identity.

But if it falls on a leaf of lotus, it shines sort of a pearl.

So select the simplest place wherever one would shine.

Do not simply keep slogging; understand wherever to figure onerous, how to,

which domain, when, what system or project.

Place means that a company, city, country, field, team, technology.

Do what suits you, from on overall perspective, when hearing to everybody.

Success isn't enthusiastic about that call .

Once the choice is formed, Success is said to the proper effort, 

robust determination at the side of Associate in Nursing unwavering commitment...

Dear Mother...

Dear Mother,

You don't have to fix my situation

or change the people around me,

But please change me according to the situation.

Instead of giving me what I want,

Give me what you feel is best for me.

There is no need to fix my all problems,

because when I am surrounded by them,

Than only I will realize my need for You.

When the pain inside is almost too much,

for me to have, don't take all the pain away

but comfort me in your arms and remind me,

how much you love me.

When people disappoint me, than remind me,

that it's only you that I can truly depend.

When my situation looks dark's 

& seems like no way to out,

help me to focus on the work

 that's taking place inside of me

instead of the reality of my surroundings.

Don't change my situation every time I call,

but use my situation as a tool

 to change the inside of me...

Do Not Believe…

Do not believe in anything

Simply because you have heard it.

Do not believe in anything

Simply because it is spoken,

And rumored by many.

Do not believe in anything

Simply because it is found

Written in your religious book.

Do not believe in anything

Merely on the authority of your

Teachers and elders.

Do not believe in false traditions

Because they have been handed

Down for many generations.

But after observation and analysis.

When you find that anything agrees

With the reason and its conducive

To the good and benefits of one and all,

Than accept it and live up to it… 

Restarts of life...

In my old post I asked to you all that “What will you do” if you face that situation. I got so many replies saying that it will surely happen once in all the humans’ life. We must have to give our 100% in relationship than only it will be a pure love relation I am purely agreed with all of you. Our life is like this only. We always have two sides. One side always has joy, laughter, happiness, Success, fun and other side tears, sadness and hurt. The thing about our life I feel that you always going to hurt. You are going to have emotional nights and cry yourself to sleep for hours. You will always suffer some kind of loss. But you will also have those moments where you heal. Those moments are the best. You feel like you smile for the first time again. You feel like you are alive again. And your life is just kind of restarts and its the truth of our life . So don’t be always negative, a bright side is also waiting for you, to show you the happiness and love..

If One Day..

If one day you feel like crying, Call me,

I don’t promise you that

I will make you laugh

But I can cry with you.

If one day you want to run away

Don’t be afraid to call me.

I don’t promise to ask you to stop,

But I can run with you..

 If one day you don’t want to

Listen anybody, Call me..

I promise to be very quiet..

But…

If one day you call

And there is no answer,

Then come fast to me,

Perhaps I need you…

Thanks To All...

Thanks to those who hated me,

You made me stronger.

Thanks to those who loved me,

You made my heart go fonder.

Thanks to those who cared,

You made me feel important.

Thanks to those who entered in my life,

You made who I am today.

Special thanks to those who left me,

You showed me that nothing last forever.

Thanks to those who stayed with me,

You showed me true friendship.

And finally thanks to those who listened me,

You made me like I was worth it...