The Law Of Mirrors...

I have so many friends who always say that he is like this or she is like this. But If I will show you exactly the maximum quality is same in him or her. Whatever we think about any other person we think according to our personalityand perception. We see only those things which we know well or in other word which are near to us. When people insult you, don’t take offense, don’t take it personally, but do listen their words. 

They are telling you how they see the world, and they are telling you the exact negative qualities that they possess. The law of mirrors says that, one can only see what is in them, regardless if it is what is actually present in reality or not.  Release the need to defend or try to explain to them that you are not being whatever insult they have thrown at you, but evaluate instead all of these insult, and realize that this is who they are. Then decide if a person with those qualities is one who you would like in your life or not…

What will you do.??

For a while think that somebody love you so much. His/her love is not physically or mentally but it’s a spiritual love. She/he can do anything to get you. He/she always thinks only about you. And in the other side you don’t know about this. You think like she/he is a good friend who shares everything with you.  One day she/he proposes you. But the bad luck of that human is you refused to love her/him. Then also he/she loves you so much that, when your current lover left you, she/he always cares about you. She/he always with you and always try to make you happy. And one day you realize that she/he is doing everything to make me happy and I am sad because one person left Me.??? I love a lot that person, but she/he left Me.? You know that the other one loves you so much, but then also you are not able to decide what to do. Somewhere I read that “In life, don’t be confused or sad when something good or beautiful leaves you. Just like in the sea, another beautiful wave will always come; you just have to be ready to see it”. But I am not agreeing with this, because I also read that “true love happen only one time”. If this is the case than what is your opinion about this.?? What do you think that you will do, if it happens with you?

Inner Change...

I have so many friends who are very good and supportive for me and others also. But one of my friends always feels that he is very superior and always blame to others for any mistake. He always wants to change others but not himself. Once “Gandhiji” said “You must be the change you wish to see in the others”. I am not telling he is bad or I don’t like him but when I think in a broad way than I feel that it’s not helpful in professional life because nobody will change according to you. You have to change according to the work or situation. But if you want to change all than first you have to change yourself and show others that this is the profit because of this change, than all will change according to you. People who wait for changes to occur on the outside before they commit to making changes on the inside will never make any changes at all. To make a change often takes a lot of initial energy and effort. It is a psychological fact that you can influence your environment and thoughts. If you do so consciously and with high purpose, you can change your habits and attitudes for the better. So if you wants to change others than first improve your Inner power, efforts so that you will change…