Respect our Family...

This time likewise I have a fascinating and motivational story for every one of you. The story goes like this.
A rancher got so old that he couldn't till the ground any longer. So he might use the day simply sitting on the yard. His child, as of now working the ranch, might gaze toward time to time and see his father sitting there. "He's of no utilization any longer," the child thought to himself, "he doesn't do anything!" One day the child got so baffled by this, that he constructed a wood pine box, dragged it over to the yard, and advised his father to get in. Without saying anything, the father moved inside. In the wake of shutting the cover, the child dragged the pine box to the edge of the homestead where there was a high bluff. As he approached the drop, he heard a light tapping on the top from inside the box. He opened it up. Even now lying there calmly, the father gazed toward his child. "I know you are set to toss me over the precipice, however before you do, might I recommend something?" "What is it?" answered the child. "Toss me over the precipice, when you like," said the father, "yet spare this great wood pine box... Your youngsters may need to utilize it...

Attitudes for Life...

Once I have read somewhere that "Our attitude shows that where we are now in the height of success, and where we will go". Everybody has their own point of view towards attitude. Here we have 3 types of attitude for life.

• “Maintain an attitude of anticipating success!”- Some people with a negative mindset have become masters of anticipating failure. Change the mindset to positive. As most of the time we think that, it is not going to happen, and we anticipate failure of our all hard work. But we must have to think positively.
• "Maintain a forgiving attitude”. I feel that, I am very lucky who got so many friends who are good as a family. From whom I can learn so many things and will learn so many things. I remember one of my friend who is very very simple, forgiving nature, and I always admire the clam attitude same like my friend. I can say that he was one of my "Guru" who thought me, how to control our self and forgive others. Now he is in very good position and getting success in every steps. That's an live example of a forgiving attitude which I feel that everybody should have.
• “Maintain a receptive attitude”. Be open to others ideas, opinions, suggestions; do not have mental blockade. Listen first and listen to everyone. Spread love, think twice then make any decision.

It is clear now that a Positive Attitude towards our - job, spouse, friends, colleagues, family members, business, siblings, boss, partner, client, associate, passion, interests, hobbies are needed.
One will hit the peak & reach the top of his personal life & career if he creates a Positive Attitude in all the above. Let us keep working in that direction so that we can improve our self and our Inner Power...

Change Your Thinking...

Today I have one old story to tell you. Maybe most of you already know it, but just read it and think once again with my prospective.

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. 

One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. 

His bed was next to the room's only window.The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. 

They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation... 

Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. 

The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and colour of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake, ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every colour and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.. 

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene. 

One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days, weeks and months passed...

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. 

She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. 

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed. It faced a blank wall.. 

The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.

The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. 

She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.' 

The moral of the story which I feel in my heart is- 

There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations. 

Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled. 

If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy...

The Law Of Mirrors...

I have so many friends who always say that he is like this or she is like this. But If I will show you exactly the maximum quality is same in him or her. Whatever we think about any other person we think according to our personalityand perception. We see only those things which we know well or in other word which are near to us. When people insult you, don’t take offense, don’t take it personally, but do listen their words. 

They are telling you how they see the world, and they are telling you the exact negative qualities that they possess. The law of mirrors says that, one can only see what is in them, regardless if it is what is actually present in reality or not.  Release the need to defend or try to explain to them that you are not being whatever insult they have thrown at you, but evaluate instead all of these insult, and realize that this is who they are. Then decide if a person with those qualities is one who you would like in your life or not…