Showing posts with label Truth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Truth. Show all posts

Monday, 24 February 2014

9 Steps for Self Improvement...

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1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it-
If you want to do some work and your heart says or indicate that its wrong, or you feel that it’s wrong than don’t do that work.

2. Say exactly what you mean-
Some people are not very clear with their thoughts and what they are saying. So you must take care or your words that what you want to convey to the other person.

3. Don’t be a people pleaser-
I personally know some people who always please their boss or power person to get close relation with them. It’s not bad to have pleasing personality, but it should be according to correct time and situation not always.

4. Trust your instincts-
If you want to do something and your instincts say that you can do it than go ahead and do it.

5. Never speak badly about yourself-
This is the most common habit of almost all the people, sometimes even I speak badly about myself, but the truth is we don’t have to speak bad about our self, it will create an unconscious in our mind and we will do what we are thinking about our self.

6. Never give up on your dreams-
I was a poor student in my schooling, and I always want to be at least an average, if not good a student. I tried hard, and now I can say that I have a good understanding about myself which shows that we can improve our self if we have trust in our dreams.

7. Don’t be afraid to say no-
According to me this is the point which is useful in every field or our life, from personal to professional work. If you learn to say no in some situation, than it’s good for you. Suppose you have to submit your monthly report to your manager and if your team leader says that please help me or do my work also, than in this condition you must say no if you don’t have time.

8. Be kind to yourself-
Always try to be kind for yourself. It’s only you who knows that what you are doing and how you are doing. So be positive and polite with yourself and you will see that your productivity is increasing day by day.

9. Let go of what you can’t control-
Sometimes what happen, we know that because of “me” we have lost something or we have lost something, but the real situation was in not your control. So in that condition don’t think much about that and don’t bring negativity in your mind. Forget whatever happens because there are some things which are not in our control.

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Wednesday, 9 October 2013

Do Not Believe…

Simply because you have heard it.
Do not believe in anything
Simply because it is spoken,
And rumored by many.
Do not believe in anything
Simply because it is found
Written in your religious book.
Do not believe in anything
Merely on the authority of your
Teachers and elders.
Do not believe in false traditions
Because they have been handed
Down for many generations.
But after observation and analysis.
When you find that anything agrees
With the reason and its conducive
To the good and benefits of one and all,
Than accept it and live up to it… 

Monday, 30 September 2013

Restarts of life...

In my old post I asked to you all that “What will you do” if you face that situation. I got so many replies saying that it will surely happen once in all the humans’ life. We must have to give our 100% in relationship than only it will be a pure love relation I am purely agreed with all of you. Our life is like this only. We always have two sides. One side always has joy, laughter, happiness, Success, fun and other side tears, sadness and hurt. The thing about our life I feel that you always going to hurt. You are going to have emotional nights and cry yourself to sleep for hours. You will always suffer some kind of loss. But you will also have those moments where you heal. Those moments are the best. You feel like you smile for the first time again. You feel like you are alive again. And your life is just kind of restarts and its the truth of our life . So don’t be always negative, a bright side is also waiting for you, to show you the happiness and love..

Tuesday, 17 September 2013

The Law Of Mirrors...

I have so many friends who always say that he is like this or she is like this. But If I will show you exactly the maximum quality is same in him or her. Whatever we think about any other person we think according to our personalityand perception. We see only those things which we know well or in other word which are near to us. When people insult you, don’t take offense, don’t take it personally, but do listen their words. 
They are telling you how they see the world, and they are telling you the exact negative qualities that they possess. The law of mirrors says that, one can only see what is in them, regardless if it is what is actually present in reality or not.  Release the need to defend or try to explain to them that you are not being whatever insult they have thrown at you, but evaluate instead all of these insult, and realize that this is who they are. Then decide if a person with those qualities is one who you would like in your life or not…

Monday, 24 June 2013

Truths Of Life..

For writing my post sometimes I use some real life incidents which is close to my heart and sometimes I use others suggestions or reading from books. Yesterday I experienced something personally. If we just look at them and feel them from the heart, then we realise that they are very common in life. But if we really think than we can feel that they are very true in nature. Sometimes when we are sad then we always think that our life is not good and if we take just opposite situation than we feel that our life is so good. If we think correctly than we can say that life is not just a situation, but the life is a mixture of our nature, Life is an art, friends, surrounding and many more things which are involved very deeply in our heart. If our situations, friends and all those things which are effecting us are in favour, than our life is so good but if not then its not supporting. We always want a good life, and always pray to get a peaceful life. Some get according to their wish but some not. If you are getting according to your wish than its very good, but if not then do not blame on others. Life doesn't give you the people you want, but it gives you the people you need. To help you, to support you, to Love you, to leave you to become the person you know you can be. This is the truth of our life...