15 Painful things for Lovers...

I am not a love expert, but I found some common things in people which I feel is a pain for lovers…

1. Always having fight and later on realizing it was your fault.
2. Your lover will always screw you but then also you seem to give then another chance.
3. Realizing that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life.
4. Bringing back the feeling which you have hardly learned to forget.
5. Always remembering the good time with loved once.
6. Wishing that this time you will not get screwed.
7. Always trying to hide what you really feel.
8. Pure love with someone who loves another person.
9. Having a serious commitment with someone you know would not last.
10. Shielding you heart to love someone.
11. Loving a person too much.
12. Right love at the wrong time.
13. Taking risk to fall in love again.
14. Later on accepting that it was never meant to be.
15. Moving on with life after breaking the relation.

If you are same with the given factors then believe me, you are in pain, and I will suggest you to let it go and enjoy the god gifted life with happiness and smile… :)

Rules For The Happy Life...

Count your blessings, which you have, not your troubles.

Live at the present moment

Always Say “I Love You” rather than hating everybody

Be a GIVER, not a taker.

Seek for purity in everybody and everything

Pray for Positiveness each day.

Do a minimum of one smart deed each day.

Learn to count happiness in others

Fill your life with spiritual wealth not material wealth

Learn to laugh &Smile and 

therefore the world can smile with you...

Life Changing Lesson...

 

This time, again I have an interesting and motivational story for you all. I hope it will help you to understand the beauty of our life in a better way.
Once in a class, a professor observes that one of his best students is not feeling good, maybe the reason is some personal stress, or maybe something else. At the end of the class, he asked to the student the reason behind it .
Student replied that he is not feeling well, and because of that he is not able to concentrate in the class. So again the teacher asked the reason behind it. Student replied some personal reason.
Then the teacher asked him to bring a glass of water, with half full.
Student brought the half glass of water.
Then, he asked him to hold in the hand.
Student does the same.
Then he asked him, what if I tell you to hold it for 1 minute?
Student replied: I can handle it.
If I say to hold it for 15 minute?
I will get pain in my hand.
What if I will say it to hold for half an hour?
Then the student replied, I will get hurt, or probably I need to go to doctor.
Then the teacher said, that’s the same thing with our life also, if you take anything too long in your heart which is bothering you, you will not feel good. It’s not good to handle those things for too long. If you have them for some time then it’s ok, but if you consider them for a long time then they will start hurting you. It's vital to think about the difficulties or issues throughout your life, But EVEN MORE IMPORTANT is to 'PUT THEM DOWN' at the end of each prior day you go to rest…
That way, you are not focused on, you awaken day crisp &strong & can deal with any issue, any test that comes your direction!

The Irony of Our Life is...

Sometime I always think about my past when I was a child, and we had only 15-20 friends who are very near to me. If we want to play a game or bunk the class, we always stay together even when we were getting punishment. Those are the days which force me now to connect with my friends once again with the help of current social media.
I am very much active in media, and I have so many friends who love me a lot. This time I have one post which is forwarded by one of my friend who believes that there is something different in life. He believes that what we really think is not the truth. I will not change his words and show you his though process towards the life.
According to him "The Irony of Our Life is….."
We always think that the wedding halls are those places where we can see more love, affection and kisses. But the reality is Airports have seen more Affectionate Kisses than Wedding Halls..
We always think that, our temples or any of our religious places have heard more sincere prayer than any other place. But unfortunately it’s wrong. The Walls of Hospitals have heard more Sincere Prayers
than the Walls of Temples, Masjid and churches..
Good Days or Bad Days Depend on your Thinking. What u Call “Suffocation” in Local Train Becomes an “Atmosphere” in Disco. Pizza….always confuses us, it comes in a square box. When you open it, it’s round. When you start eating it, it’s triangle!
Life & People are also like Pizza, look different.. Appear different & behave absolutely different. This is the only Irony of Our Life...

9 Steps for Self Improvement...

1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it-
If you want to do some work and your heart says or indicate that its wrong, or you feel that it’s wrong than don’t do that work.

2. Say exactly what you mean-
Some people are not very clear with their thoughts and what they are saying. So you must take care or your words that what you want to convey to the other person.

3. Don’t be a people pleaser-
I personally know some people who always please their boss or power person to get close relation with them. It’s not bad to have pleasing personality, but it should be according to correct time and situation not always.

4. Trust your instincts-
If you want to do something and your instincts say that you can do it than go ahead and do it.

5. Never speak badly about yourself-
This is the most common habit of almost all the people, sometimes even I speak badly about myself, but the truth is we don’t have to speak bad about our self, it will create an unconscious in our mind and we will do what we are thinking about our self.

6. Never give up on your dreams-
I was a poor student in my schooling, and I always want to be at least an average, if not good a student. I tried hard, and now I can say that I have a good understanding about myself which shows that we can improve our self if we have trust in our dreams.

7. Don’t be afraid to say no-
According to me this is the point which is useful in every field or our life, from personal to professional work. If you learn to say no in some situation, than it’s good for you. Suppose you have to submit your monthly report to your manager and if your team leader says that please help me or do my work also, than in this condition you must say no if you don’t have time.

8. Be kind to yourself-
Always try to be kind for yourself. It’s only you who knows that what you are doing and how you are doing. So be positive and polite with yourself and you will see that your productivity is increasing day by day.

9. Let go of what you can’t control-
Sometimes what happen, we know that because of “me” we have lost something or we have lost something, but the real situation was in not your control. So in that condition don’t think much about that and don’t bring negativity in your mind. Forget whatever happens because there are some things which are not in our control.

Two Types Of People...

In my point of view there are two types of people in the world. The one, who believe in telling others, and the other one who believe in doing, rather than blaming to others.

Today I will give an example which I have studied when I was a school kid. The story goes like this. One day a farmer, walking down the street in a small town came across a large stone in the middle of his path.

The farmer complained: "Who could be so careless as to leave such a big stone on the road? Why does someone not remove it?" He went away complaining.

The next day, the same thing happened with a milkman. He too went away grumbling but left the stone as it was.

Then one day, a student came across the stone. Worried that someone may fall over it and hurt himself, he decided to push it aside.

He pushed long and hard all by himself and eventually managed to remove the stone from the path.

He came back and noticed a piece of paper where the stone was kept.

He picked the paper and opened it. Inside was written, "You are the true wealth of this nation."

There are two kinds of people - talkers and doers.

Talkers merely talk, while doers do.

The moral of this story is that if you don't want to get involved you have no right to criticize. Become the change you wish to see in this world then only you will change the world…

Get On With Life…

Some people are not going to like you no matter what you do or what you say. Get over it and get on with life. Some your efforts are not going to bring the result you were after. Accept it and find another approach because every day is a new beginning.

Occasionally you will be distracted and knocked off course for a while. On a regular basis, life will have its disappointments. Those disappointment and destruction do not have to stop you. In fact you can choose to let them inspire you and to push you forward. No matter what had just happened, you are free in this movement to act with positive purpose. Whatever the past has worked in your favor or not, the future is you’re to create as you wish. Life is too important to waste it feeling sorry for yourself or beating yourself up. Get up and get on with life, and make it match your expectation…

If One Day..

If one day you feel like crying, Call me,

I don’t promise you that

I will make you laugh

But I can cry with you.

If one day you want to run away

Don’t be afraid to call me.

I don’t promise to ask you to stop,

But I can run with you..

 If one day you don’t want to

Listen anybody, Call me..

I promise to be very quiet..

But…

If one day you call

And there is no answer,

Then come fast to me,

Perhaps I need you…

Life is...

In every human we have some different opinion about life. We can not say that anybody is right or wrong. All are correct because life is not same it also changes according to person. In today's era we can see the challenges and competition between outer world and Inner world. Our outer world is other people, who are directly challenging us and our Inner world is non other than, our own thought, the way of thinking, and our courage to accept Challenges in life. Everyday we can see in our professional  life that so many people running for the same thing, some quit and some makes others quit. Life is all about moving one step ahead and facing challenges. I remember one thought which says that "life is continuously being hungry. The meaning of life is not simply to exist, to survive, but to move ahead, to go up, to achieve, to conquer..

Mistake & Regret...

Some days back one of our Professor told us to do a particular assignment and I "miss understood" the work. The result was I am not able to complete/Submit that work on time and the punishment was decrements of one grade.!!! I know that I had done mistake but we always search some ideas to defence us. That's why I told you that I was not able to understood the work properly.!!!

We all know that whatever mistakes we done it's very hard to accept, but you can't change the past. We can't go back and do things to the way we wanted them to happen. But we can change the future and that's a beautiful thing about life. Yes, we all do mistakes & we will make mistakes. We all will have bad days - but as long as we let the past go, we will have such a beautiful and bright future ahead of us. Knowing that things were meant to happen. Knowing that each day we will learn something, "Every day is a new beginning" so that you keep growing to be a better person. So don't be regret for the past think about the future. We all will do mistakes and the good thing is we can learn from our mistakes...