Attitudes for Life...

Once I have read somewhere that "Our attitude shows that where we are now in the height of success, and where we will go". Everybody has their own point of view towards attitude. Here we have 3 types of attitude for life.

• “Maintain an attitude of anticipating success!”- Some people with a negative mindset have become masters of anticipating failure. Change the mindset to positive. As most of the time we think that, it is not going to happen, and we anticipate failure of our all hard work. But we must have to think positively.
• "Maintain a forgiving attitude”. I feel that, I am very lucky who got so many friends who are good as a family. From whom I can learn so many things and will learn so many things. I remember one of my friend who is very very simple, forgiving nature, and I always admire the clam attitude same like my friend. I can say that he was one of my "Guru" who thought me, how to control our self and forgive others. Now he is in very good position and getting success in every steps. That's an live example of a forgiving attitude which I feel that everybody should have.
• “Maintain a receptive attitude”. Be open to others ideas, opinions, suggestions; do not have mental blockade. Listen first and listen to everyone. Spread love, think twice then make any decision.

It is clear now that a Positive Attitude towards our - job, spouse, friends, colleagues, family members, business, siblings, boss, partner, client, associate, passion, interests, hobbies are needed.
One will hit the peak & reach the top of his personal life & career if he creates a Positive Attitude in all the above. Let us keep working in that direction so that we can improve our self and our Inner Power...

Do Not Believe…

Do not believe in anything

Simply because you have heard it.

Do not believe in anything

Simply because it is spoken,

And rumored by many.

Do not believe in anything

Simply because it is found

Written in your religious book.

Do not believe in anything

Merely on the authority of your

Teachers and elders.

Do not believe in false traditions

Because they have been handed

Down for many generations.

But after observation and analysis.

When you find that anything agrees

With the reason and its conducive

To the good and benefits of one and all,

Than accept it and live up to it… 

Perfect Vs Best!!!

If I will ask you a question to explain the difference between perfect and best, or to choose which is more attractive than I am sure you will choose the perfect.  The image of this word “perfect” is very deeply involved in our mind. But according to me “Best” is more important and more attractive, because in that we can give our 100%. If we take an example of India “Shastra” than we can find that so many people want to be a perfect king or person, but they are not able to sustain. We can take a great example of “Ravana” he is extremely intelligent and one of the best “Pandit” but because of his aim to be perfect he done all distorted things. I am not telling to be a perfect person is bad, or whoever wants to be a perfect person is not good. But I simply want to say that if you always want to be perfect than you are never being a perfect person, this is the truth of our life. Life always makes changes and because of all those changes you can’t be a perfect person ever. In so many Indian “Vedas” you can find that “Don’t waste your life aiming to be perfect, when you can aim to be the best person you can be as yourself. When we aim for perfectionism, we aim for a distorted view of life, that we will probably obtain physically, but not spiritually or inside of our self. So don’t aim to be a perfect person. If you are perfect than it’s good but if not than try to be the best among all and also within yourself...

Our Failures...

Most of us play computer games and enjoy very much our winning. Sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. If we win we will go to the next round but if we fail than we play again & again the same stage until we defeat our enemy. I can bet most of us very familiar to this situation and it’s very good. We always want to win and go to next stage but if we fail than we have to play the same stage again. This is very much related to our life but if this situation comes in real life, when we fail again & again than we feel negativity and lose our hope. Remember that your failures are the seeds of your most glorious successes. We all know that it’s very difficult to be natural & calm when we are losing. Be sad, but don't despair. An inventor fails hundreds of times, and if he wins once, he's in. He treats his failures simply as practice shots. There is no failure for the man who realizes his Inner power. There is no failure for the man who gets up every time he falls, who rebounds like a rubber ball, who persists when everyone else gives up, who pushes on when everyone else turns back. So don't be fear of your failure be strong because your failure is your success path…

Remember Your "Past Life"...

I am always thinking why people change their attitude in different different way. I know some of my friends and some of their friends who are not same like before. They changed their mind, brain and thinking.

I know you also have some of your friends, relative, and other peoples who changed very much.

For this situation I remember one story, may be some of us know.  The story is about a blind girl who hated herself just because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she could see everything, including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked her, “now that you can see the world, will you marry me?”

The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend was blind too, and refused to marry him. Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying:

“Just take care of my eyes dear.”

This is the way  how peoples brain changes when the status, situation changed. Only few remember what life was before, and who’s always been there even in the most painful situations. So do not think that one person is very good to you now, will be good in tomorrow also. Remember your life, and be good for those who are your well wisher..

Be You and Be Happy...

Believe in yourself and your values,

Don't sell out when things go wrong.

Don't let anything get you down.

Always bounce back up.

Set goal for your future,

Never settle for anything less.

Realize that there are others in the world,

With much bigger problem than you.

Appreciate the good things in your life,

And be thankful for the time,

Which you have with your loved ones.

Spend more time with your family and friends.

Appreciate the simple things in life,

And don't get caught up in material things.

Just live a simple life..