Trust, Honesty and Loyalty...

We always says that Honesty is the best and the most expensive gift you can give to someone. When you become honest to someone, it brings trust. It makes you trustworthy, which is priceless.

Always remember friends, trust cannot be purchased, learned or acquired. It has to be earned with the time.

Most of the time I often see, so many people break their relationship because of trust. They believe that their partner is not honest with them.

Trust based on honesty is the foundation of strong and bonding relationships which will surely lead you towards an Honest & HappyLife because if you tell the truth you don’t have to remember anything.

 I have so many friends who were in love and now because of their professional work or study they are far away from their partner. Some of the friends are still with their partner, but most of the friends ruined their relationship.

When I asked to one of my friend why you are not with her/him.?

The reply I got is- she/he is living so far from me, and we can’t live together with this much distance.

Well I don’t know the real reason why they have broken their relationship, but one thing I know that distance doesn’t ruin a relationship but DOUBTS DO.

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.

The most expensive thing in the world is trust .It can take years to earn & just a matter of seconds to lose. If there comes a time to choose between Money & Trust Choose TRUST….
because Money can be earned back, but not trust…

I also suggest as a human being that Don’t trust too much , Don’t love too much and Don’t hope too much Because that “too much”  is very dangerous for us. In Sanskrit we have one quote “Ati Sarvtra Varjite” that means everything which is too much is not good because it can hurt you so much. Be aware have balanced attachment and keep expectations and desire in control. Everything which is   “too much” leads to pain if they do not happen….

Age and maturity...

In every human life there is a cycle of the age, if you see the Indian Purana’s than you can understand easily that all the species in the earth always have a cycle for our life. According to our Purana’s first is childhood in which all says that we are immature, second is adult in which all are called grown, and the third is old age in which we are fully experienced and matured. I can understand you are thinking that what I am talking about, so I will not keep you more in suspense.  

We always heard from every 2^nd and third person's mouth that you are no more child so behave like a matured person. The point is who is matured??? Is an adult person or old?? In my point of view I can say that nobody is matured if people compare maturity with age. The reason behind this I feel is, most of the people say when we are child we are immature, but what about those old people who behave same like a child?? If we say that they are immature than it’s totally wrong because they are older than us and having more experience than us.  So can we say them immature?

            If somebody ask to me that who is mature person, than I will always say that nobody is mature. Because in my point of view nobody is mature.  People only learn to act like a mature person in front of other people.  We really never grow up, we only learn how to act in public. This is the truths of our life...

Our Failures...

Most of us play computer games and enjoy very much our winning. Sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. If we win we will go to the next round but if we fail than we play again & again the same stage until we defeat our enemy. I can bet most of us very familiar to this situation and it’s very good. We always want to win and go to next stage but if we fail than we have to play the same stage again. This is very much related to our life but if this situation comes in real life, when we fail again & again than we feel negativity and lose our hope. Remember that your failures are the seeds of your most glorious successes. We all know that it’s very difficult to be natural & calm when we are losing. Be sad, but don't despair. An inventor fails hundreds of times, and if he wins once, he's in. He treats his failures simply as practice shots. There is no failure for the man who realizes his Inner power. There is no failure for the man who gets up every time he falls, who rebounds like a rubber ball, who persists when everyone else gives up, who pushes on when everyone else turns back. So don't be fear of your failure be strong because your failure is your success path…

Remember Your "Past Life"...

I am always thinking why people change their attitude in different different way. I know some of my friends and some of their friends who are not same like before. They changed their mind, brain and thinking.

I know you also have some of your friends, relative, and other peoples who changed very much.

For this situation I remember one story, may be some of us know.  The story is about a blind girl who hated herself just because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she could see everything, including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked her, “now that you can see the world, will you marry me?”

The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend was blind too, and refused to marry him. Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying:

“Just take care of my eyes dear.”

This is the way  how peoples brain changes when the status, situation changed. Only few remember what life was before, and who’s always been there even in the most painful situations. So do not think that one person is very good to you now, will be good in tomorrow also. Remember your life, and be good for those who are your well wisher..