Dear Mother...

Dear Mother,

You don't have to fix my situation

or change the people around me,

But please change me according to the situation.

Instead of giving me what I want,

Give me what you feel is best for me.

There is no need to fix my all problems,

because when I am surrounded by them,

Than only I will realize my need for You.

When the pain inside is almost too much,

for me to have, don't take all the pain away

but comfort me in your arms and remind me,

how much you love me.

When people disappoint me, than remind me,

that it's only you that I can truly depend.

When my situation looks dark's 

& seems like no way to out,

help me to focus on the work

 that's taking place inside of me

instead of the reality of my surroundings.

Don't change my situation every time I call,

but use my situation as a tool

 to change the inside of me...

Perfect Vs Best!!!

If I will ask you a question to explain the difference between perfect and best, or to choose which is more attractive than I am sure you will choose the perfect.  The image of this word “perfect” is very deeply involved in our mind. But according to me “Best” is more important and more attractive, because in that we can give our 100%. If we take an example of India “Shastra” than we can find that so many people want to be a perfect king or person, but they are not able to sustain. We can take a great example of “Ravana” he is extremely intelligent and one of the best “Pandit” but because of his aim to be perfect he done all distorted things. I am not telling to be a perfect person is bad, or whoever wants to be a perfect person is not good. But I simply want to say that if you always want to be perfect than you are never being a perfect person, this is the truth of our life. Life always makes changes and because of all those changes you can’t be a perfect person ever. In so many Indian “Vedas” you can find that “Don’t waste your life aiming to be perfect, when you can aim to be the best person you can be as yourself. When we aim for perfectionism, we aim for a distorted view of life, that we will probably obtain physically, but not spiritually or inside of our self. So don’t aim to be a perfect person. If you are perfect than it’s good but if not than try to be the best among all and also within yourself...

Our Failures...

Most of us play computer games and enjoy very much our winning. Sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. If we win we will go to the next round but if we fail than we play again & again the same stage until we defeat our enemy. I can bet most of us very familiar to this situation and it’s very good. We always want to win and go to next stage but if we fail than we have to play the same stage again. This is very much related to our life but if this situation comes in real life, when we fail again & again than we feel negativity and lose our hope. Remember that your failures are the seeds of your most glorious successes. We all know that it’s very difficult to be natural & calm when we are losing. Be sad, but don't despair. An inventor fails hundreds of times, and if he wins once, he's in. He treats his failures simply as practice shots. There is no failure for the man who realizes his Inner power. There is no failure for the man who gets up every time he falls, who rebounds like a rubber ball, who persists when everyone else gives up, who pushes on when everyone else turns back. So don't be fear of your failure be strong because your failure is your success path…